How do I get my girlfriend back? It is a question that most of the guys ask each other. It is not only girls who suffer from emotional pathos after a break up but also guys. Most of the times, guys are confused as to the nature of their relationship after the break up. You feel emotions surging through you and that tires you out. You must remember one thing that is essential for everybody who breaks up with their partner to know.
You have to decide whether you really like her even after the break up or you really want to let go. That is the deciding factor that will tell you whether you want her back in your life or you simply want to move on. If you decide that you want to have her back at any cost then here are a few tips that can help.
- In the very beginning ask yourself some questions about the relationship, about her and your reactions to them.
If she has left you for another boy then it might be fruitless to go on trying to get her attention and to make up. It is better in such circumstances that you leave her and move on to better prospects. If not, then ascertain whether she still likes you or has the chemistry fizzled out. Try and be friends with her even after the break up. That may be hard considering the fact that you like her very much and would rather stand at her side than a few feet away, but it is an essential step in getting your girlfriend back.
- Be there for her, again, as a friend when she has any problems or needs support.
She will appreciate the gesture and maybe give you another chance. Don’t be pushy to get her attention. In fact, don’t advise her at all. Just be there and listen if she wants to talk to you. Start acting like yourself and project all your positive qualities when you are around her or for that matter wherever you are. Try and recollect the situation she fell in love with you and recreate those moments. That way you show her that you have good qualities that she may be missing out on.
- Behave in normal style and be funny.
Try to crack jokes like you used to. This is the ultimate best thing that you can do to win her back. Girls simply love funny guys and that may be your chance to get her back. If she has broken up with you because of some aspect of you that is driving her crazy then try to change yourself. If she gets to know that you are really trying to change then she might like you all over again.
- You also need to understand what went wrong between you.
Understand why she has whatever problem led to this break-up because it usually is something that she obviously feels strongly about. Attempt to solve this problem with something as simple as a gift. This will just reinforce the fact that you understand her on the level she expects you to. But once you have begun to rekindle your romance with her and feel that she is coming around, (when the both of you are alone for a while) present her with some flowers and apologize, if need be.
That will be absolutely touching and she will definitely consider getting back with you. But keep in mind that simply making up with a gift can give her the feeling that you don’t understand her and that you simply want to make up.