Finding the best man for you is as challenging as finding a good diamond. And keeping the diamond without losing it is again challenging! Many a time, we find special people in our life leave us all of a sudden which leaves us shattered. However there is always light at the end of the tunnel to look forward to. So, getting your knight in shining armor back is not exactly an unattainable dream.
Make amends for the wrong doing in the past: ‘Nobody is perfect’ is not just a Hannah Montana’s theme song. It’s also a fact of life. It takes two to tango, just as it takes two to break up. So get thinking on what went wrong and take care not to repeat your mistakes again.
Focus on the good: If you focus on what he did wrong, how much he hurt you and so on you are not going to get close in your attempts to get him back. Everyone commits mistakes, but true love is all about accepting a person for what they are.So when you have some doubts on your man, write down on a piece of paper all good points about your man that made your knees go weak once upon a time and focus on them. This will instantly change your mindset.
Spruce up your appearance!: Reinvent yourself! Go crazy; get a new wardrobe, new hairdo! This will help in building your self esteem and will empower you to get your love back! Love yourself before you expect others to love you.
Keep faith, especially in yourself! : Do not start praying incessantly in the hope that God will take pity on you. Believe in your love, if you feel it is true and your heart strings tug at the mere thought of him then follow your instinct. Inspired action is always more productive. So if you feel like you just NEED to call him, then just do it!
Arouse his curiosity: Men find strong and independent women irresistible. Your inherent sense of self worth will surely reflect in your deeds. This will definitely arouse his curiosity, and as they say, curiosity kills the cat!
Humility is the need of the hour : Accept that you have made mistakes too and do not be afraid to let him know that. Admitting your mistakes is the first step towards setting right your relationship.
Take inspiration from the duck: Have you seen the duck swimming in the water? It looks so calm and composed! But if you look underneath the water, you will find its webbed feet paddling way furiously, never giving up. Be inspired by the duck and never give up till you succeed.