Like every long term relationship, a marriage changes over time. Most couples go through a few different phases when they’re together. There’s the initial honeymoon phase when they’re settling into their respective roles of husband and wife. Followed by the years of raising a family together when they’re time as a couple often gets overshadowed by the needs of their children. Later in life the man and wife reconnect as they look forward to retirement and sharing the remainder of their lives together. Any time during the course of a marriage, the interest of either party can wane. If you’re a wife who feels neglected by her husband now and you want that to change, you have the ability to make it happen. Learning how to captivate your husband’s heart again isn’t nearly as challenging as you may think it is.
Knowing how to captivate your husband’s heart the way you did when you two first married starts with recognizing the changes in yourself. Naturally as people mature and grow they change. You need to take stock of how much you’ve changed since the day you two walked down the aisle. Are you less impatient now with your husband than you were when you two first met? Do you push your husband’s needs and the needs of your relationship with him to the backburner in favor of other things? Or have you stopped thanking and appreciating your husband because you believe he already knows how you feel? If you’re guilty of any of these things, you need to change your behavior now. Couples can begin to take each other for granted once the newness of the marriage has worn off. Try your best to start treating your husband the way you used to. If you can do this, you’ll notice a big change in the way he treats you as well.
It’s also very important to always show your husband that you’re still that vibrant, interesting and confident woman he initially fell in love with. Men love dynamic women and that doesn’t change once marriage replaces dating. He wants to be proud of you and all your accomplishments. Don’t lose sight of who you are just because you’ve become a wife and a mother. The more interesting you are as woman, the more your husband will be captivated by you.